The Gaslighting Effect - Dr. Robin Stern

The Gaslighting Effect - Dr. Robin Stern

Covert narcissism

"The Gaslight Effect" by Robin Stern is a crucial book that delves deeply into the phenomenon of gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse, often associated with narcissism, in which the abuser deliberately spreads false information to make the victim doubt themselves and their sanity.

This form of manipulation can range from subtle behavior, such as denying appointments ("No, you never said we were meeting friends") to more blatant forms of deception ("You're so incredibly stupid" / "You don't need medication"). The use of terms like "mindfucking" and "brainwashing" also applies to gaslighting.

A disturbing aspect of gaslighting is that victims are often unaware of the gradual psychological torture they are being subjected to, leading to serious doubts about themselves and their own sense of reality. Even mental health professionals and doctors can fall prey to gaslighting, as narcissists who employ this tactic are masters of lying and deception, so no one sees through the actual manipulation.

While there's already a wealth of information about gaslighting available online, Robin Stern distinguishes herself by not only describing the phenomenon but also offering concrete solutions for victims to break free from a gaslighting narcissist. This book is invaluable for anyone dealing with narcissism and gaslighting.

Robin Stern , a prominent psychoanalyst, lecturer, and author, and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, brought the concept of "gaslighting" back into the spotlight ten years ago. She did so by referencing the film of the same name starring Ingrid Bergman, and since then, the concept has become an inseparable part of our consciousness. Her book offers insight and healing for anyone dealing with the devastating consequences of gaslighting.

Dutch | 9789020215168 | 288 pages